tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-84722723153147032042024-02-20T06:26:53.596-08:00For Thy Good"O, that there were such an heart in them, that they would fear Me, and keep all my commandments always, that it might be well with them, and with their children for ever!" Deuteronomy 5:29Annie Christianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15467498827106389722noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8472272315314703204.post-84655484552014766672013-06-05T03:01:00.003-07:002013-06-05T03:01:44.711-07:00Day 19 - Emotional Healing<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: large;">More illness, an injury, travel... so many urgent things to distract from what is truly important. Charles E. Hummel's "Tyranny of the Urgent" is a pithy missive which cautions us to beware of giving the best of our resources to the urgent--but often less important--demands of life.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">By now we're nearly six months out from the initial goal of 30 days of spoken forgiveness (and I'm only on Day 19!). I've tried to be faithful to my promise to not approach thorny issues with others until my heart is right, but some things can't wait six months! Several topics have had to be addressed, but resolution has been elusive. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">As I've tried to guard my tongue, it has seemed the Holy Spirit was a bit hamstrung by my lack of spiritual preparation. It's nearly impossible for me to speak His truth without adulterating it with my bitterness. His message--and work in the hearts of others--is suffering for it.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">My doctor reminded me today that the various organs in the body are repositories for specific emotions. Resentment & fear in the kidneys (and by extension, the urinary tract). Bitterness stored in the gallbladder; grief in the lungs. These are all emotional wounds that I bear, and my physical body is paying a heavy price for them. I simply can't get well!</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">I find myself asking, "But how do I release these things?" By returning to the beginning; do the first works. Speak forgiveness every morning. Before anything else, speak to the Lord about my desire to trust Him to adjudicate old offenses. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Let the Great Physician do His work in my heart--and my body--by obeying His command to forgive. </span></div>
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Annie Christianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15467498827106389722noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8472272315314703204.post-20549881069224490362013-03-27T06:35:00.002-07:002013-06-12T07:14:13.667-07:00Day 17-18 - Eradicate, Meditate & Wait<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Psalms 19:12-14</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">"Who can understand his error? cleanse Thou me from secret faults." </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">"Keep back Thy servant also from presumptuous sins; let them not have dominion over me: then shall I be upright, and I shall be innocent from the great transgression."</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">"Let the words of my mouth, and the meditaiton of my heart, be acceptable in Thy sight, O L<span style="font-size: small;">ORD</span>, my Strength, and my Redeemer."</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">I'm feeling a bit like the proverbial onion here, with layers being peeled back, and eyes increasingly distressed. It's always hard to see ourselves as others do-- as God does. We become masters of rationalization. It's more and more automatic to excuse or discount inappropriate actions or re-actions. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Errors, secret faults, presumptious sins, great transgressions. Isn't that how it goes? A pretty scary progression of (increasingly smelly) layers, used to cover my personal irresponsibility and unbelief. At first, it's just an overreaction to a real or imagined slight. As I blame others' provocation, I grow ever more reluctant to trust God's justice.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Cleanse Thou me, keep me back, reclaim the throne of my heart--eradicate the layers of self-justification. Teach me to not only stop the erroneous spew, but to clean up the stewing heart which feeds it. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Let the meditation of my heart be the righteousness of Your law, the assurance of your justice, the comfort of your word. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">As I wait patiently for Your resolution, let my focus be on praising You and Your goodness. Let it lead me--and my offenders--to repentance. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Some years back, I was intrigued by a book title. <em>"A Long Obedience in The Same Direction"</em>, by Eugene Peterson, is a study of the Psalms of Ascent--Psalms 120-134. Peterson's premise is that the principles found there are just as applicable to modern day life as they were when the faithful sang them on their way to worship in Jerusalem. Topics included are Repentance, Trust, Worship, Service, Security, Joy, etc.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'd never thought of obedience in a "long" sense. As a child, a parent, and a spiritual disciple, I've been taught that obedience should be immediate and complete. The goal is to bring myself into unfailing compliance with the rules of life and Godliness. But how often do I think past the expectation of the moment? How committed am I to careful consideration of the heart attitude required for a "long obedience"?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In the Psalms, David continually speaks of "whole heart" worship and service. As he paid his dues, waiting for the promise of his throne, he gave us a glimpse of "<em>long"</em>. Relentlessly pursued by the king he was destined to replace, unjustly accused and baited, David "encouraged himself in the Lord, His God". His whole-hearted devotion and unflagging trust in God and His promises, kept him from proudly exerting his own will. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">"<em>Long...</em>"... you mean, like 30 days of spoken forgiveness? You mean, like fully trusting in the inerrant justice and judgment of my Advocate? Even though the violent, the evil and wicked, and the proud oppress me with their baited traps? Even though my heart is breaking with pain and loneliness? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Yes, if that broken heart will leave itself in the gentle and capable hands of the Great Physician. Not just for today or this week, but for the long haul. As committed to His care and wisdom as one would be to a cancer specialist or a suicide counsellor. Continuing, unwavering, "<em>in the same direction</em>".</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">"I know that the Lord will maintain the cause of the afflicted, and the right of the poor. Surely the righteous shall give thanks unto Thy name: the upright shall dwell in Thy presence." Psalms 140:12-13</span></div>
<br />Annie Christianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15467498827106389722noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8472272315314703204.post-66955919145928253832012-12-14T05:45:00.001-08:002012-12-19T06:57:26.361-08:00Day 14-15 Just A Bit Blogged Down<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Finding myself getting a bit overwhelmed with this process. The blog is taking on a life of its own, and beginning to eclipse the object of the exercise. When I get ready to pray through the List, I find myself distracted by the thots I wanted to be sure and include in this journal. And, to be perfectly honest, I don't think I have any idea how to really let go. Real, deep down trust--whether in God or anyone else--just doesn't seem to be a part of my make up.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">God promises to never test us beyond what we're able to bear, and to always provide a way of escape. Have I been so bent on my own vision of justice that I've refused His grace? Well, yes. I don't suppose any other answer would be honest. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Sure, I've forgiven people before, but not until the offense is long past, or not likely to be repeated. The current problem is with on-going issues, and unrepentant perps. Have I lived my whole life like this? When did I miss that first "escape"? Some of the items in these dockets go back a very long way! </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I originally learned the concept of leaving the dockets with the Judge from the book, "Forgive and Love Again" by John Neider. I was reading along, and thinking, "Ok, Lord, I've heard all this before. I need something new, something to provide a fresh perspective." The courtroom illustration was quite a 'light bulb' moment, but trust is still a requirement.<v:rect fillcolor="white [7]" filled="f" id="_x0000_s1051" insetpen="t" o:cliptowrap="t" o:preferrelative="t" strokecolor="black [0]" stroked="f" style="height: 120.49pt; left: 198.63pt; mso-wrap-distance-bottom: 2.88pt; mso-wrap-distance-left: 2.88pt; mso-wrap-distance-right: 2.88pt; mso-wrap-distance-top: 2.88pt; position: absolute; top: 643.5pt; width: 73.18pt; z-index: 1;"> <v:fill color2="white [7]"></v:fill><v:stroke color2="white [7]"><o:left color2="white [7]" color="black [0]" v:ext="view"></o:left><o:top color2="white [7]" color="black [0]" v:ext="view"></o:top><o:right color2="white [7]" color="black [0]" v:ext="view"></o:right><o:bottom color2="white [7]" color="black [0]" v:ext="view"></o:bottom><o:column color2="white [7]" color="black [0]" v:ext="view"></o:column></v:stroke><v:imagedata o:title="9780736929059_centered_283x466[1]" src="file:///C:\DOCUME~1\Carol\LOCALS~1\Temp\msohtmlclip1\01\clip_image002.jpg"></v:imagedata><v:shadow color="#ccc [4]"></v:shadow><v:path o:extrusionok="f"></v:path><o:lock aspectratio="t" v:ext="edit"></o:lock></v:rect></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Neider went on, after the section on forgiveness, to emphasize the additional need for emotional healing. Maybe that's where I stopped short. Lord, please heal the wounds, and let me receive your grace to stop reopening them!</span></div>
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<v:rect alt="Forgive and Love Again: Healing Wounded Relationships" filled="f" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/0736929053/ref=sib_dp_pt#reader-link" id="prodImage" insetpen="t" o:cliptowrap="t" o:preferrelative="t" o:spid="_x0000_s1030" stroked="f" strokeweight="0" style="height: 110.88pt; left: 261pt; mso-position-horizontal: absolute; position: absolute; top: 351pt; width: 110.88pt; z-index: 1;"><v:imagedata o:title="51KsAgU5xGL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_" src="file:///C:\DOCUME~1\Carol\LOCALS~1\Temp\msohtmlclip1\01\clip_image001.jpg"></v:imagedata><v:path o:extrusionok="f"></v:path><o:lock aspectratio="t" v:ext="edit"></o:lock></v:rect><v:rect alt="Forgive and Love Again: Healing Wounded Relationships" filled="f" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/0736929053/ref=sib_dp_pt#reader-link" id="prodImage" insetpen="t" o:cliptowrap="t" o:preferrelative="t" o:spid="_x0000_s1032" stroked="f" strokeweight="0" style="height: 110.88pt; left: 261pt; mso-position-horizontal: absolute; position: absolute; top: 351pt; width: 110.88pt; z-index: 1;"><v:imagedata o:title="51KsAgU5xGL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_" src="file:///C:\DOCUME~1\Carol\LOCALS~1\Temp\msohtmlclip1\01\clip_image001.jpg"></v:imagedata><v:path o:extrusionok="f"></v:path><o:lock aspectratio="t" v:ext="edit"></o:lock></v:rect><v:rect alt="Forgive and Love Again: Healing Wounded Relationships" filled="f" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/0736929053/ref=sib_dp_pt#reader-link" id="prodImage" insetpen="t" o:cliptowrap="t" o:preferrelative="t" o:spid="_x0000_s1032" stroked="f" strokeweight="0" style="height: 110.88pt; left: 261pt; mso-position-horizontal: absolute; position: absolute; top: 351pt; width: 110.88pt; z-index: 1;"><v:imagedata o:title="51KsAgU5xGL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_" src="file:///C:\DOCUME~1\Carol\LOCALS~1\Temp\msohtmlclip1\01\clip_image001.jpg"></v:imagedata><v:path o:extrusionok="f"></v:path><o:lock aspectratio="t" v:ext="edit"></o:lock></v:rect><v:rect alt="Forgive and Love Again: Healing Wounded Relationships" filled="f" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/0736929053/ref=sib_dp_pt#reader-link" id="prodImage" insetpen="t" o:cliptowrap="t" o:preferrelative="t" o:spid="_x0000_s1033" stroked="f" strokeweight="0" style="height: 110.88pt; left: 261pt; mso-position-horizontal: absolute; position: absolute; top: 351pt; width: 110.88pt; z-index: 1;"><v:imagedata o:title="51KsAgU5xGL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_" src="file:///C:\DOCUME~1\Carol\LOCALS~1\Temp\msohtmlclip1\01\clip_image001.jpg"></v:imagedata><v:path o:extrusionok="f"></v:path><o:lock aspectratio="t" v:ext="edit"></o:lock></v:rect><v:rect fillcolor="white [7]" filled="f" id="_x0000_s1051" insetpen="t" o:cliptowrap="t" o:preferrelative="t" strokecolor="black [0]" stroked="f" style="height: 120.49pt; left: 198.63pt; mso-wrap-distance-bottom: 2.88pt; mso-wrap-distance-left: 2.88pt; mso-wrap-distance-right: 2.88pt; mso-wrap-distance-top: 2.88pt; position: absolute; top: 643.5pt; width: 73.18pt; z-index: 1;"><v:fill color2="white [7]"></v:fill><v:stroke color2="white [7]"><o:left color2="white [7]" color="black [0]" v:ext="view"></o:left><o:top color2="white [7]" color="black [0]" v:ext="view"></o:top><o:right color2="white [7]" color="black [0]" v:ext="view"></o:right><o:bottom color2="white [7]" color="black [0]" v:ext="view"></o:bottom><o:column color2="white [7]" color="black [0]" v:ext="view"></o:column></v:stroke><v:imagedata o:title="9780736929059_centered_283x466[1]" src="file:///C:\DOCUME~1\Carol\LOCALS~1\Temp\msohtmlclip1\01\clip_image002.jpg"></v:imagedata><v:shadow color="#ccc [4]"></v:shadow><v:path o:extrusionok="f"></v:path><o:lock aspectratio="t" v:ext="edit"></o:lock></v:rect><em><u>Forgive And Love Again: Healing Wounded Relationships</u> - by John W. Nieder and Thomas M. Thompson, 2010 Harvest House. Available on Amazon.com.</em>Annie Christianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15467498827106389722noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8472272315314703204.post-41866081513253675052012-12-10T22:19:00.000-08:002012-12-10T22:26:09.249-08:00Day 12-13 Reaction & Response<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I once heard an instructive and challenging series of messages on the choices we make when things hit us sideways. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In short, I choose to react to my offender or respond to God. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If I've spent my life in distrust, how do I break out of the false sense of security created by my own 'control'? Clearly, I'm not in control of anything, and security continually eludes me.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This between the acknowledgment that "tribulation worketh patience", and "If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally..."</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I've asked God for wisdom. I've committed my works to Him. Now the challenge is to 'stay the course'; continuing faithfully while I wait for the fruit of the labor. Yes, still no breakthrough, no fireworks, no 180-degree turn to set me on a new course. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">There were many trials and testings for young David, as he waited for his turn on the throne of Israel. We're told repeatedly that he behaved himself wisely, and encouraged himself in the Lord his God. The Psalms are filled with his determination to walk with the Lord in purity and holiness despite the struggles of his own mind and heart.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Lord, let me be patient in the path You have set before me. Let me continue on faithfully, keeping my eyes on Yours, and not on any one or any thing else. Let me look forward to the satisfaction--not of vengeance on my enemies, nor personal vindication, but--with being transformed into Your likeness.</span><br />
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Annie Christianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15467498827106389722noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8472272315314703204.post-61511795714531630472012-12-03T13:52:00.004-08:002012-12-03T13:52:35.389-08:00Day 9 Help Thou Mine Unbelief<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As I wrote "tormenting fear", I was struck by the telling nature of the phrase. The Lord and I have had numerous discussions about this topic, and there are 'way too many facets to cover in a brief blog post. Suffice it to say that the basis for fear is unbelief. I simply do not truly believe in my heart God will protect me. Maybe I attribute to Him the failings of those authorities in my life who claim to represent Him. Whatever the cause, I've put myself in charge of the protection detail. I do have to say that hasn't turned out so well.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">There is no fear in love; <strong>but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment.</strong> He that feareth is not made perfect in love. <strong>We love Him, because He first loved us.</strong>"</span></div>
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Annie Christianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15467498827106389722noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8472272315314703204.post-5203554968933330582012-12-03T11:27:00.007-08:002012-12-10T21:00:34.629-08:00Day 8 Sorry And Safe<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So why is this such a battle for me? Why can't I just let things go? I'm realizing the heaviness of my life--this "I'm so consumed with everything on my plate, and in my heart" feeling--is because of all these people I'm continually dragging around behind me. A little like Pilgrim's huge burden in Pilgrim's Progress. Or maybe a LOT like it.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If an offender doesn't say they're sorry, then it's apparent they don't think they did anything wrong, right? If they don't think it was wrong, then they will just as likely do it again, right? How can I ever feel 'safe' without their acknowledgment, and their assurance that they intend that it not happen again? I can well understand why the Lord instructed us in Matthew 5 and 18, to go to those with whom we have offenses (whether they or we are the offenders). It's unbearable to live in this tormenting fear!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">But there has to be an alternative, because sometimes the 'going to them' doesn't produce the desired results. (One of my culprits looked me straight in the face, understood my pain, and within a couple weeks--with spoken purpose--did it again! ) God didn't create robots. Our free will allows us to choose our ways, and too often, those ways cause pain in the lives of others.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">"...My grace is sufficient for thee: for My strength is made perfect (complete) in weakness. [Paul's response] Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me... for when I am weak, then am I strong."</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Pretty counter-intuitive. But the idea here is that I determine to access the grace Christ offers [the strength and desire to do His will]. By focusing on His grace, I demonstrate that I am willing to trust His justice and judgment in the bumps and bruises of everyday life. Even when those wounds come from those closest to me. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Lord, I've been in Your courtroom every day for the last eight days, saying that I "will" to forgive these, my offenders. Trouble is, I keep walking out with their dockets still in my hands. Let me trust You enough to leave those charges on Your sacred Bench, and walk away in Your grace and freedom.</span></div>
<br />Annie Christianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15467498827106389722noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8472272315314703204.post-44866160797800530222012-12-03T10:36:00.001-08:002021-01-16T08:40:57.920-08:00Day 6-7 Trusting Obedience and Grace<div style="text-align: justify;">
This exercise still feels very 'wooden' to me. It seems I'm just running "the list" by rote, with no feeling except the desire to do right. I keep expecting to 'feel' something, some release, some softening, <em>something!</em></div>
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Proverbs 16:3 teaches the foundation for "trust and obey". </div>
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Well, that's what I'm trying to do, Lord. I do desire to be right with You, and I am, by Your Grace, determined to faithfully seek to release these people. It's noteworthy that King David used the all-caps "L<span style="font-size: x-small;">ORD</span>", reminding me that my Savior is to be the LORD of my life: my Master, Sovereign, Commander-in-Chief.</div>
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I am noticing some positive side effects from the discipline required to keep up this quest. Today, I was working again on a long-standing project with one of the 'offenders'. We've had such contention over it, that I've mostly backed away, but it <em>is </em>still a mutual endeavor. The stiffened body, tight jaw, shallow breathing showed clearly the tension they felt. I was incredulous. Really? I dip my oar in, and you get so tense you can't breathe? The Lord laid His hand on my mouth, helped me defer and back away from spewing the things that so 'need to be said'. After a bit, things relaxed, and a good outcome was achieved.</div>
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Thanks Lord, for grace. Let me continue to be 'silent' on my resentments, allowing Spirit's work in my heart and in those of others. </div>
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<span style="font-size: xx-small;"></span>Annie Christianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15467498827106389722noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8472272315314703204.post-57448606104312163532012-12-01T21:53:00.002-08:002021-01-16T08:41:22.263-08:00Days 4-5 Jailor or Jailed?I've awakened both mornings, by God's grace, speaking forgiveness. It seems important to work down throught the list first thing each morning. It has surprised me how often during the day I find myself arguing again with one of my 'prisoners'. I know just what I want to say to each one; things that need to be said, to convince them of their wrongs. <br />
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If I keep old offenders imprisoned in my heart, waiting for them to give back what they took from me, do I not then become a prisoner as well? How much of my time is spent in the dungeon of my heart, guarding their cell door? How much do I cut myself off from others, and from God, by investing so much energy in keeping alive the memory of their offenses?<br />
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As long as I maintain an attitude of unforgiveness, do I not put myself under the judgment of Psalms 66:18?<br />
<strong>"If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me."</strong> <br />
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Oh Lord, let me continue on this journey. Let me continue in Your grace, faithful to accept Your strength and peace.Annie Christianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15467498827106389722noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8472272315314703204.post-90497134043768457442012-11-29T00:11:00.001-08:002012-12-03T10:40:43.717-08:00Day 3 - Mirrors & SandpaperRomans 2:1 "Therefore thou art inexcusable, O man, whosoever thou art that judgest: for wherein thou judgest another, thou condemnest thyself; for thou that judgest doest the same things."<br />
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There's a lot of talk these days about not judging others (and the subject of judging, in general, is a great discussion for another day less busy than today.) The Lord keeps asking me what I do that is like those with whom I'm so angry. Every time I start on a rant, and even when speaking forgiveness, my own transgressions come tiptoeing to mind. <br />
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It almost seems like I need to make some kind of list or chart to help me pursue the "forgive our trespasses, as we forgive those who have trespassed against us" idea. Allowing the Holy Spirit to remind me of the wrongs He's forgiven me is great way to find the humility to back away from rage at another's trespass(es).<br />
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Have you ever noticed how God brings into our lives people who rub us the wrong way? It seems we learn a lot about ourselves when some 'sandpaper' acquaintance comes along to smooth off the rough edges.<br />
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Lord, please let me accept Your grace to respond well when you bring mirrors and sandpaper into my life. Let me judge myself, that I may be "judged of no man".<br />
<br />Annie Christianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15467498827106389722noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8472272315314703204.post-85473869117899589422012-11-27T11:15:00.001-08:002012-11-27T11:31:31.311-08:00Day 2 - Additions & SubtractionsSo, a few more names/offenses popped up, and I had a little trouble with the "don't speak to any of them.." part. I need to add the new items to the list, and let the Holy Spirit lay His hand on my mouth. <br />
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Matthew 12:34-36 teaches that the mouth is the overflow valve for the heart, and my heart is full-to-overflowing with all this grief. The first time I had a chance to share this program/process with a friend (who also happens to be an offender), I found myself venting. To him. About him. oops. Does it help that I said I was sorry, and acknowledged that my resentment has been my choice, my responsibility?<br />
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It occurred to me this morning that my time is terribly occupied with the continual rehearsing of all this mess. It's like I'm dragging all these people around behind me with chains, everywhere I go. I'm determined not to let them go until they say they're sorry, and give me back the personal worth I believe they took away.<br />
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It makes me wonder what my life will be like when I completely release them into the custody of my Judge/Advocate. How much time and energy have I been losing every waking (and sleeping) moment? <br />
<br />Annie Christianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15467498827106389722noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8472272315314703204.post-56853546561406313922012-11-26T11:16:00.001-08:002012-12-03T10:46:52.868-08:0030 Days of Forgiveness<div style="text-align: justify;">
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In a recent discussion, it was suggested my chronic health challenges may be due to some emotional and/or spiritual blockages. A true friend repeated the challenge to forgive the offenders, for the sake of my own healing. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Well, how 'healing' is it to let bullies off scott free?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">When I give my offenders--and the full dockets of their crimes--over to the Righteous Judge, He will deal His perfect justice to them. His grace grants me 'trusting obedience' and enables me to leave the courtroom in complete confidence. Once outside, the Holy Spirit envelopes me in His comfort and protection. The point is to continue on in His strength; and to resist the temptation to barge back inside and make sure the Judge is doing His job!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Trouble begins again when I don't see enough 'judgment' in their lives, or when they re-offend in mine. Trusting Obedience says, "Wait, His timing is best". Is my heart panting for vengeance or restoration? When God judged me for my wrongs, what was His motivation? A close look at His Law and Christ's teachings shows clearly that while justice is essential, the goal is restoration. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So what does Ephesians 4:29 mean to me? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">For the sake of the judgment Christ took on the cross, God has forgiven me for my unbelief and self-will. Not because I deserved it, but because Jesus paid for it before I even asked. Before I was even born. Because God so deeply loved me, and Jesus cried out to Him for my restoration. Is He not equally crying out for the restoration of my offenders?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The abusive parent, the controlling spouse, the flawed spiritual authority figure, the stubborn offspring, the provoking co-worker, the backbiting employee, the gossipy family member, the bullying sibling, the contentious 'friend'. Each listed with just a few representative offenses, delivered to the Judge. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> My Father, let me determine to speak nothing to any of them for the 30 days. As I meet with you in chambers each day, work your cleansing in my heart. Let me acknowledge my transgressions to You, so that I also may be forgiven by others. </span><br />
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Annie Christianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15467498827106389722noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8472272315314703204.post-46421204344030859902011-07-25T05:23:00.000-07:002011-07-25T06:26:55.606-07:00God Is Good, All The Time<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">So... two years later the questions linger, as does the struggle to understand. But there is progress. I begin to see that the core issue is unbelief. </span><br /></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">After calming the raging storm on the Sea of Gallilee, Jesus chided His disciples for their hardness of heart and unbelief. "For they considered not the miracle of the loaves: for their heart was hardened." Mark 6:52; and again, a short time later, in chapter 8:17-19. I've often wondered about His rebuke... seemed a little harsh. </span><br /></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">But, when I think about it from His perspective, I begin to see His point. When I doubt Him, am I not displaying unbelief? Despite the constant assertions of His compassion and concern given me in His word, I keep up 'protective' walls. I have found many of the authorities in my life to be varying degrees of abusive, and have 'learned' to guard my heart closely. I guess you could say my heart is hardened... but it seems too 'dangerous' <em>not </em>to be!</span><br /></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">The missing piece here is Trust. Yes, there are many reasons to mistrust human leadership. It is plagued by self-absorption and pride. But <em>God's</em> sovereignty is another subject altogether. He does not suffer from our human fears or needs. He knows all and knows best... and He so desires to see that 'best' lived out in our lives. Refusing His direction is like trying to drive <em>beside</em> the highway... things just keep getting bumpier. The rules of the road are in place to make the journey more pleasant--not just to oppress or give the Highway Patrol something to do.</span> </div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Consider the continual assertions in the book of Deuteronomy. Just before entering the Promised Land, Moses was reminding the younger generation of Israelites of God's commands and care during their wilderness wanderings. Phrases like "for thy good", "for our good", that the Lord thy God may bless thee", abound. (I once counted over 30 in this one book alone!) </span><br /></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">If I am willing <em>to believe </em>what He says--and live like I do--the need for self-protection is moot. If He is all-knowing and all-powerful, everything that crosses my path is within His control. Whether I understand the point at the time, is beside the point. (Consider the "wax on, wax off" principle). He knows who I am, and who He created me to be. He knows what it will take to get me there. Regardless of what anyone says or does, <em>He</em> can be trusted. <em></em></span></div>Annie Christianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15467498827106389722noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8472272315314703204.post-57832302326576431132009-04-28T21:16:00.000-07:002009-05-01T08:59:13.721-07:00Who Is God, Really?<span style="font-family:arial;">Is God harsh or kind? Are His laws binding or (in our 'New Testament' era) mere suggestions? What does He mean when He uses the phrase "for thy good"? Are His commandments grievous to be borne or the gateway for untold blessing? When bad things happen to good people, is God responsible? How does human free-will factor in? Does fearing God mean I'm supposed to be afraid of Him? If so, why would He want that?</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;">For years, I saw God and His laws as harsh and restrictive. Crimes and punishments. Then I read the book of Deuteronomy through five times in a row, and suddenly saw a God whose heart-cry was for His children to walk in ways that would bring blessings in their lives. Not 'my way or the highway', but "prove Me herewith, saith the Lord of hosts, if I will not open the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing..."</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;">Walk with me for awhile. Let's explore together and see what kind of answers we can find for these questions. I have many thoughts about them, and many lingering uncertainties. Tell me what you've learned. Let's divide truth from feelings, and find a foundation upon which to firmly stand.</span><br /><br /><p><span style="font-family:verdana;"></span></p><br /><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span>Annie Christianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15467498827106389722noreply@blogger.com0